Gentleman Shocked to Learn That With a Pre-Nup, His Assets Weren't Protected If Wife Went to Nursing Home

I was talking to a gentleman yesterday. He was a little concerned about the possibility of losing his assets to his nursing home expenses in the future. He had recently married (for the second time). Since he and his new wife each had children from their prior marriage, and they wanted to keep their estates separate, the signed a pre-nup (also known as a Marriage Contract or a Separate Property Agreement).

He felt that he and his wife's estates were in order because of their Marriage Contract. He told me, "If my wife happens to go to a nursing home in the future, I have everything protected because of my pre-nup."

Well, no so fast. What most people who remarry later in life after losing a spouse think is that if they have a pre-nup and all of the assets are kept separate - no community property, then the assets of the spouse who does not go into the nursing home are protected. But people who think that are dead wrong - no pun intended.

The Louisiana Long Term Care Medicaid Manual provides that the assets of the spouse who stays at home (even if they are separate property of the spouse who stays at home) must be used to satisfy the needs of the spouse who is in the nursing home.

So, if you are in a second (or third) marriage, and you are confident you will never enter a nursing home - and thus, never lose your life savings, know that you could still lose everything you've worked for if your spouse needs long term care. There is a legal strategy available to you to protect your (and your spouse's) assets from nursing home poverty, but you must take advantage of the legal strategy at least five years before either spouse needs long term care.